Januaary 31, 2017
Let’s face it, and admit it, we all make mistakes. We goof up. I’d like to think most of the time it’s accidental, like when you say you will attend an event but don’t. You simply put it on the wrong date in your agenda and you miss it. So, did you technically lie about attending? It doesn’t matter. It was an error. You messed up in a pretty minor way, but minor mistakes can have major implications.
Simplistic illustration here: Remember the op scan tests you took in school? Imagine being exactly one bubble off. This happened to me. It has happened to others. So every question from that point on was just a little off, and some were even correct by happenstance. But, overall, the effects were painful. Small errors can have long-term consequences.
We have all said things we shouldn’t have said, and we have all missed opportunities to say things we should have. I work hard to not look back at all my mistakes, and I’m working at forgiving myself and forgetting many of them. But I can recall too many times when I should have stopped speaking and let the conversation die. Instead, it was just so important to me to make my point – to what end? That didn’t matter to me at the time. And there were times when I should have stood up for someone, but failed.
The Bible, in its infinite wisdom, acknowledges all this in Romans 3:23, when it states, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” That’s right, the good thing about messing up is that you’re in good company. In fact, you’re in company with, literally, every person in the world. We all mess up! We all have messed up and will mess up again. Even with the best of intentions, I will again fail. I will say something I shouldn’t, do something I shouldn’t, and not say or do something that I should.
Sure, we can make excuses for our behavior or lack of behavior. I could teach a course on Rationalization . . . “Well, you need to know that . . . “ or “If things had been different then I never would have, but considering . . . .” It’s easy to do. That doesn’t make it right.
One of the absolutely amazing things about our Lord is that, He loves me anyway. I mean, I’ve messed up bad. I can be mean. God still loves me. I am a divorced Christian woman (isn’t divorced Christian an oxymoron?). God still loves me. I have evil thoughts about strangers (remember, I drive in Atlanta) as well as people I know and really, really love. Doesn’t matter. God loves me anyway. I sin – sometimes unintentionally, but sometimes with eyes wide open (that speed limit allows for five miles over, right? It doesn’t matter to me that I signed a contract with the state saying I would obey all traffic laws.). God still loves me.
In math terms (I’m a math and grammar nerd, which makes for a rough life), we know that God = Love, and according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.”
So, continuing with our math example, we can substitute the name God (or Holy Spirit or Jesus since the triune God is three in one, a mathematical miracle and mystery) every time the word Love is used. So, God is patient and kind; God does not envy or boast; God is not arrogant or rude. God does not insist on His own way; God is not irritable or resentful; God does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. God bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. God never ends.
This is nothing short of AMAZING! God loves you so much, that He has been, will be, and is patient and kind toward you. God is never envious so doesn’t have to worry about making Himself look good. God is not arrogant or rude, even when I am/we are. God does not rejoice at wrongdoing.
Okay, this one is hard for me. When I’m watching football game, for instance, specifically my favorite team of whomever is playing Dallas at the moment, I not only want my team to do well, but sometimes I have to count on those cowboys messing up. Not God – even in real life examples, not football.
God rejoices with truth, so every time I live in truth, God – Whom I would expect to have better things to do by the way – God rejoices! So, not only does God love me Anyway, He just plains Loves me! And You!
This is specifically where I began . . . God bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. There is NOTHING I can do to stop God from loving me. There is nothing I can fail to do that will make God stop loving me. No matter what I do, or don’t do, God loves me . . . anyway.
I mess up. I say the wrong things and do the wrong things. I sin. I sin again. I repent, apologize, yet sin again. I keep messing up. Yet . . . and it’s amazing, God loves me anyway. I will make this my mantra for a while, remembering every day that God loves me anyway. Maybe it will help me be more patient, kind, and loving; and less arrogant, rude, irritable, and resentful. Maybe, this is a specific way of being more Christ-like.
Many blessings.
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