March 2016
When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Chances are you don’t see much that surprises you because we are all used to seeing our reflection in a mirror. No big deal.
But, if I were to ask you to stare at your reflection and really diagnose what you see, what would you say? Chances are that you would see imperfections. Blemishes or scars. A nose or chin that you wish was different. Eyes you want to be larger or set further apart. Women are sold billions of dollars’ worth of products every year to change the appearance of our faces.
When God looks at you, what does He see? He sees His baby.
Now, when people really stare at us, it makes us uncomfortable. Our tendency is to look away or hide our faces or make a joke or stare back to discourage their looking at us.
When God looks at us He sees us as the children He created. Imagine you are looking with love at a small child. You smile, maybe without even realizing it. Your face softens. Your eyes may get misty. It’s a pleasure just watching this small being. That’s how God sees you. Not your imperfections. Not your limitations. Just you. The child He loves.
How do we see others when we look at them? Often through disapproving and judgmental lenses. I read an article the other day by a mom who didn’t understand why some people just wouldn’t learn the difference between the words your and you’re . . . until she had a dyslexic daughter. She wrote that she became far less judgmental after this opened her eyes.
I do not suggest we look at the world through rose colored glasses. That just puts a lovely hue on everything, but it doesn’t really change anything.
I suggest we look at the world through the reflection of a mirror. Hold up a mirror and you can see what others see. You can even see behind you. If you catch the light just right you can make that mirror burn things. Don’t do that. Stop doing that. We do that now with our critical looks and eye rolling.
What if you held a Jesus mirror that allowed you to look at others the way Jesus sees them? Instead of seeing an annoying talker you see the insecure person trying to fit in. You see the shy adolescent trying to win others approval. You see people making an effort instead of falling short.
God sees us for what we are, yet He looks at us with love. He sees our imperfections and sins . . . yet He loves us and chooses to focus on that. Let’s look at others the same way and see how our thoughts and actions change. Let’s look through a mirror that shows people’s intents and stop judging what we choose to see as negative. Let’s stop telling people they are not sorry when they apologize and take them at their word. Then let’s watch how our acceptance of others transforms their behavior.
Let’s watch as we expect the best of others and they deliver it. Let’s reflect Christ in our thoughts and words and actions and see amazing restoration of relationships. And great new relationships. And introductions to a love and caring God. You can do all this, starting today, and every time you look in a mirror.
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