November 2016
We live in a busy world. There are a plethora of demands on our time – our spouse needs us, our children need us, our boss needs us, our clients need us, even strangers need our time. No matter which way you turn, there is someone there! The world is full of people, and people are full of needs. In this world, where we are always on stage and in demand, it’s important to be available to everyone. It’s also important to have time to yourself, thus the term Quiet Time. I am a huge proponent of Quiet Time and have even taught seminars on the topic. Even so . . .
It’s okay to be busy, and it’s good to have down time, but I want to add a new concept – allow yourself to Be Interruptible. Please just go with it.
For instance, when you walk, do you walk with your head down, focused on your next task or some decision? Stop it. Look up. Look around. Smile at others. Make eye contact. Be interruptible. Encourage interruptions.
When you are alone, even in a crowd, how does your Face-At-Rest look? I know people who look so angry that others shy away from them. These people weren’t aware that they were scowling and scaring away others. School your features to a pleasant countenance and be approachable. In other words, be interruptible.
When you’re reading or working or whatever, are people comfortable interrupting you? Whether at work as a manager or at home with your projects, let people know, both verbally and by your actions, that you value people, you know that people are important, especially family and colleagues, and they can interrupt you. You may lack sleep for a day, or have to work later than planned, but it’s worth it!
Be interruptible by strangers in the street or in a store. I enjoy engaging cashiers, as long as there isn’t a line. Taking a few minutes to interact with a cashier actually improves your experience. You leave others feeling good about themselves and you, having enjoyed the interaction, feel better about yourself. You did will!
I encourage you to interrupt your day by investing in others. What can you do to encourage interruptions? First, stop believing that interruptions are a bad thing. They are often a needed break. So, when you interrupt someone else, you are giving them a diversion. Second, when you interrupt others, there is probably a reason for it – you have a question or need some help. Maybe you just want that break. When others interrupt you, you are providing them a service – information, attention, their break, whatever. What an easy way to serve the Lord! Just by being available to others.
Again, let others know you are approachable, verbally and non-verbally. Verbally, tell people that you are happy to be interrupted. That you value their relationship and they are more important than your project at hand. Second, non-verbally, with eye contact and smiles. Did you know the only consistent international non-verbal communication is the smile? You can miscommunicate across international and cultural lines with words and other non-verbal signs, but the smile is universal.
So let others know you are available to them – Spend your time and attention on others, starting now, by being interruptible.
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