June 2016
I know the lines about not being a doormat, or being treated like a doormat, or being dumb as a doormat. The point is that doormats are abused and taken for granted. They are stepped on, have dirt wiped on them, and are then left behind, forgotten and ignored.
Hmmm, let’s look at this for a minute. Aren’t there many things in our lives that are forgotten or ignored, but are important? Hear me out, please. Think about . . . your toothbrush. I wouldn’t want anybody to decide that toothbrushes aren’t important so they are going to stop brushing their teeth. But after using them two or three times a day, it’s okay that they are put away for use the next time. That’s their function. Blankets are another example. We use them when we are cold, but fold them up and put them on a shelf in a dark closet when we don’t need them. But blankets don’t get a bad reputation.
I think the door mat deserves a better reputation. All door mats have something in common, in that they are made out of tough and long-lasting materials. When was the last time you had to replace a doormat because it just wore out? So when you choose a doormat you know you will have it a long time. The strength of being able to stand up to years of being rubbed and stomped on is a good thing!
Door mats often express personality. There are a plethora of options when choosing a door mat, from materials and colors to sayings and pictures. This leads us to another thing door mats can do – they can offer a greeting. Isn’t it nice to be greeted when you arrive at someone’s home?
Door mats allow a unique creativity. Beyond the personality they may provide at the door, they can be used in other ways. For instance, one of my sons uses a welcome mat as his shower mat. It’s not what I would do, but he wanted it and I bought it for him, and he loves it. People comment on it when they visit. His mat probably creates more conversations than others, because it’s in a unique place. Aren’t Christians often put in unique places, and given opportunities to create conversations?
Finally, door mats perform a necessary function, of keeping outside dirt, and possibly germs, outside! Nobody really wants this job, and in Biblical times it was the lowest of the servants who had the job of washing people’s feet. Back then, when roads were dusty and sandals were worn, it was a really bad job. If they had had paved roads and door mats then Jesus’ washing His disciples’ feet wouldn’t have made sense.
Please realize, though, that door mats must be maintained. They need to be swept and washed. You need to take care of your door mat like everything else in your home. As Christians, we need to take care of ourselves – with proper nutrition and exercise, plenty of rest, and good social interaction in addition to work.
I think we, as Christians, need to learn from door mats, despite their reputation of timidity (admittedly, this is from Wikipedia). We want their strength, their personality, their consistent warm greetings, creativity, and finally their function! Door mats perform a needed service, and do it well. With nary a complaint door mats are there day after day, greeting, cleaning, being used for a good purpose. Matthew 5:5 says “Blessed are the meek for they will inherit the earth.” Door mats, by their very reputation, are meek. Maybe our goal as Christians should be to be more like a door mat – functional, useful, protective, expressive, and conversation starters.
I realize the reputation of door mats is not going to change . . . dumb as a door mat . . . treated like a door mat. But we can see beyond these adages and know that we can learn from something as simple as a door mat, as it performs necessary and important functions, but does it in creative and fun ways. Go out there and be the best door mat you can be! Be meek, be humble, allow yourself to be treated like a door mat, that you can, first, provide much needed functions in this world, and, second, be blessed and inherit the earth.
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