January 2016
Matthew 18:2-5 says, “He called a little child to Him, and placed the child among them. And He said, ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whomever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whomever welcomes one such child in My name welcomes Me.’”
Have you ever watched a child in the arms of someone who loves him, and whom he trusts? Children have an amazing lack of concern when they are being carried around. It’s fascinating to watch and one of my favorite hobbies, often in church.
I’ve seen parents, holding a child, bend over to pick up something. The child will fist the dad’s t-shirt, holding on. No worry on his face. No sound. Just holding on. Never worried that he might fall or be injured. Total and complete trust.
I’ve seen parents pick up a child, rearrange them in another space, often closer to themselves or maybe away from potential harm, such as when a child squiggles too close to a pathway where someone may bump them. The child accepts his new position with nary a complaint. They often continue playing with whatever is in their hands as if they barely noticed they were moved.
Can we do the same?
When we are in danger of falling, we do more than hold on. We argue, complain, and fuss. Even if we never hit the ground, the idea of being dropped – as though the Lord would DROP US! – but even the threat of hitting the ground – even though we are often the reason, in that we were responsible for our fall, the idea of our world being juxtaposed for even an instant leaves us frightened, angry, and stressed.
When we hear of potential layoffs we immediately start stressing, justifying why we shouldn’t be the one to go, praying, even bargaining. I’ve known an entire workforce to take a pay cut rather than chance any layoffs. Would you do that, or would you have faith that the Lord will take care of you, either by protecting your job, or by allowing you to be laid off because He has a better plan for you. It’s so hard to see that Better Plan when we are having a tantrum, even if it’s a silent tantrum and we appear to be fine. We may even be saying the right things. But God knows. If you’re not trusting Him in your heart, He knows.
We need to have the faith of that child, who knows his father is not going to let any harm come to him. When we feel ourselves falling, we need to know someone bigger and stronger than us is in control and, while we feel like we are falling, the Lord is in complete control!
Will we allow God to move us, a little or a lot? For example, children eat what parents put in their mouths. They may make faces (which I think are so precious) if they don’t like the taste. But those faces don’t necessarily stop the parent from continued feeding, especially when it’s medicine. The child doesn’t like the taste, and may fuss and squirm, but the parent perseveres because it’s in the best interest of the child. As adults, we realize the best thing to do is swallow that nasty tasting stuff, because it will have a positive effect on our health. I’m specifically thinking of the bitter taste of steroids, which is the only way I’ve been able to eradicate poison ivy from my body. I swallow that stuff, trying to not let it sit in my mouth for more than an instant, and follow it immediately with something sweet and tasty. Well, when the Lord allows something bitter to enter our lives, do we embrace it and deal with it, knowing it is for our edification? Or do we spit it out and yell, or at least make faces, at the person who is, in actuality, trying to help us?
Do we only want God to put sweet things in our mouths? Personally, I would. I love to teach and speak to groups and would be overwhelmingly joyful and grateful if that were my daily plight. I would travel the world if it meant I could share gospel and business truth, which I often tie together. I enjoy that part of my job so much, and it’s the sweetness of my career. But there are other parts that may be unenjoyable and even bitter – the getting up in the middle of the night to make a meeting, the hours of practicing before every event, the stress of finding an address with which I’m unfamiliar, the bitterness of receiving a note that somebody took umbrage at what I said or how I said it. None of these are the sweetness of my work, but I deal with all of them.
God allows the salty and bitter tastes because they are good for us. Desserts take sweet but they don’t help us grow, and in fact have little, if any, nutritional value. Since I like nuts in my fudge I figure that gives me some reason for choosing that dessert. The point is, everything in life is not going to be sweet. A child accepts that and trust that what is going into their mouths is there for a reason. We don’t feed them food that needs to be chewed before they have teeth. We don’t give them fermented drinks as a child. Parents are careful to feed their babies, their children, healthy foods. Why would we expect any less from the Lord? Matthew 7:11 tells us, “If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father, Who is in heaven, give good things to those who ask Him!” The exclamation point is from the original Greek.
When we are picked up, possibly physically, like a move from one state to another, or even one home to another, we need to have the faith of a child, and keep doing what we were doing. Keep reading that Bible. Keep trusting. Keep knowing the Lord is in control and hasn’t lost us just because we have a new address. When the move may be more emotional, like the loss of a loved one through death or a divorce, we need to trust the Lord as our Father, just as our children trust us, knowing that all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord, and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). The death of a loved one, a job loss, divorce, flunking a class, accidents and illnesses, are not surprises to the Lord! He knows about every one, before they happened, yet allowed them to occur. We need to trust that He allowed them for a reason, like the innocent child who keeps going without rancor.
Finally, children find great contentment in just being. And their existence brings others joy. I am a person who needs to be busy, who is always working, always doing something. It’s like I have to earn my keep every minute of the day. Not children. They are content just being – watching, playing, existing. They find entertainment in watching a butterfly. I have a hard time doing that anymore. I think the time could be better spent. I’m probably wrong. The Lord takes joy in our existing and watching us, just like we enjoy watching children, whether they are playing or singing or just being. Your existence brings others joy. Just watch how some peoples’ faces light up when you arrive.
When you go through hard times, and you will, stop and think how a child would respond. Not the frustrated child who is throwing a tantrum. The trusting child who allows himself to be molded and taught and grown in the image of those he loves and trusts. Enjoy being just for being. Find contentment in everyday things. Lean into your heavenly Father and know that He has you and will not let you fall, lest you dash your foot upon a stone (Psalm 91:12). Despite all those times we were told to grow up, I say, go ahead, act like a child.
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